ASP Programming:

ASPfree  - ASP Development
Bytes - ASP
Devshed - ASP Programming
SitePoint - Classic ASP

Microsoft Access:

Access Programmers -  Microsoft Access Help
ASPfree -  Microsoft Access
Tek-Tips - DBMS Packages
UtterAccess - Microsoft Access Discussion Forums

Flash / ActionScript:

ActionScripts - ActionScript Forums Group
Adobe - Adobe Forums
DevShed - Flash Help
FlashKit - Flash Help
gotoandlearn - Flash and Web Development
Kirupa - Flash
SitePoint - Flash and ActionScript
UltraShock - Flash
 

JavaScripts:

CodingForums - JavaScript Programming
Google Groups - comp.lang.javascript
SitePoint - JavaScript
Bytes - JavaScript
Webmaster World - JavaScript and AJAX
Yahoo Groups - JavaScript Official

Microsoft SQL Server:

ASP.net - SQL Server, SQL Server Express
Bytes - MSSQL
DBforums - Microsoft SQL Server
DBjournal - MS SQL
Devshed - MS SQL Development
MSDN - Microsoft SQL Server
SQLteam - SQL Server Forums

MYSQL:

Bytes - mySQL
CodingForums - MYSQL
Devshed - mySQL Help
mySQL - Official mySQL forums
SitePoint - mySQL

PHP:

Bytes - PHP
Devshed - PHP Development
Google Groups - comp.lang.php
PHPfreaks - PHP Help
SitePoint - PHP
Webmaster World - PHP Server Side Scripting
Yahoo Groups - PHP Experts
 

Visual Basic:

ASPFree - Visual Basic Programming
Bytes - Visual Basic
CodeGuru - Visual Basic 6.0 Programming
Devshed - Visual Basic Programming
Eggheadcafe - VB 6.0
Ittoolbox - Visual Basic
VBCity - Visual Basic 6
VB Forums - Visual Basic 6 and Earlier
Xtreme Visual Basic Talk - Legacy Visual Basic (VB 4/5/6)