ASP Programming:

ASPfree  - ASP Development
Bytes - ASP
Devshed - ASP Programming
SitePoint - Classic ASP

Microsoft Access:

Access Programmers -  Microsoft Access Help
ASPfree -  Microsoft Access
Tek-Tips - DBMS Packages
UtterAccess - Microsoft Access Discussion Forums

JavaScripts:

CodingForums - JavaScript Programming
Google Groups - comp.lang.javascript
SitePoint - JavaScript
Tek-Tips - JavaScript Forum
Bytes - JavaScript
Webmaster World - JavaScript and AJAX
Yahoo Groups - JavaScript Official

Microsoft SQL Server:

ASP.net - SQL Server, SQL Server Express
Bytes - MSSQL
DBforums - Microsoft SQL Server
DBjournal - MS SQL
Devshed - MS SQL Development
MSDN - Microsoft SQL Server
SQLteam - SQL Server Forums
Tek-Tips - DBMS Packages

MYSQL:

Bytes - mySQL
CodingForums - MYSQL
Devshed - mySQL Help
mySQL - Official mySQL forums
SitePoint - mySQL
Tek-Tips - MySQL AB: MySQL Forum

PHP:

Bytes - PHP
Devshed - PHP Development
Google Groups - comp.lang.php
PHPfreaks - PHP Help
SitePoint - PHP
Webmaster World - PHP Server Side Scripting
Yahoo Groups - PHP Experts