Format Of For Xml Auto

I am using sql server 2000 and want to know how to get xml out of the database that looks like this using for xml auto

<Clients>
 <Client ID="1">
  <Employer="Company1" />
  <Employer="Company2" />
  <Contact type="phone">
  <contact type="email" value="test@test.com">
  <contact type="phone" value="555-5555">
 </Client>
 <Client ID="2">
  <Employer="Company3" />
  <Employer="Company4" />
  <Contact type="phone">
  <contact type="email" value="test@test.com">
  <contact type="phone" value="555-5555">
 </Client>
</Clients>

 The problem I am having is that Contact is nested inside employer when I select Employer before Contact and the opposite happens when I select Contact first.  They both join to the Client table so I would assume they both should nest directly under Client.  How do I get different fields to nest directly under the same element like above?